Introduction

Beginning this blog is a HUGE step for me. I have always been one to have trouble opening up sexually about who I am cause so many of my thoughts would be considered abnormal by typical society.  This is just an insecurity I have. I am hoping by opening up and learning about others perhaps with the same frame of mind that I will not feel so alone in my thoughts, wants, and desires.

OK where to begin: Well,  I have been married for the past 10 years but with him now for 20 years total. He is fully aware of how my twisted mind works cause I do not hid anything from him. I try to be a supportive wife, I want my husband to fulfill his dreams and do whatever makes him happy. Because if he is happy then I am happy in theory anyways. It is not always easy and there have been plenty of times when we were not completely sure if it was going to last. We have worked hard at it and so far have been very lucky. I have realized that to stay together we have to change together and that does not always mean going in the same direction or having the same interests. Always staying honest and keeping the communication open helps a lot. The fact of the matter is in my opinion everyone should be able to design their relationship according to what works for those involved. So if you read anything you might disagree with please keep in mind this is what works for us.

A bit about me and stuff I will be writing about in the near future: I have a love for certain aspects of BDSM, Swinging, an open marriage, Complete Vampire fetish.  

Some of the things I enjoy are:

Spankings with crops, floggers, paddles, Being bitten "YUM"  Blindfolds, Body Modification "tattoos" Bondage, gags, verbal humiliation, including others, light to moderate pain, serving sexual, domestic slavery or what have you. Sex toys, being submissive. The list goes on I will be writing full blogs about most of these things and others as I go.